Monday, July 18, 2011

Hairstyles for Tweens? (Short Hair)?

Next year, I am entering Middle School. Back in 5th grade, I always wore my hair down and did nothing to it. EVER. So, I want to do something for Middle. You know, change it a little. I have short blonde hair. (About an inch away from my ears.) I have layers and Side Bangs to the right. I don't have any 'professional' Hair Care stuff. ( I have a Curler, Hair Dryer, Scrunchies/Hair ties, Clips, ect.) I just want something I can do in the morning or prepare for over night. It doesn't have to be THAT simple, but it can't be TOO hard. Pics will be appreciated! Thx!

Air Force Recruiter Advice?

Also Dress appropriately > not like a normal teenager wear something your parents would defiantly approve of.

Can you name some questions which stump atheists?

actually atheists ask more questions that stump atheists . .. .like "why do Chrstians NEVER answer objective questions?" (there is no good answer to that one). . . .

Can claiming bankruptcy in the US effect my credit in Canada?

My wife and I bought a house in the US in 2008. I returned to Canada in '09 and have worthwhile employment and have no intention on returning to the States in the near future. We have been renting our house for 60% of the mortgage payment and are living our lives on a tight budget. My wife lost her job in the States and collected unemployment benefits to which she was found to be claiming falsely and return paid benefits as well as 30% in fees and penalties. We cannot sell our house for what we owe and we cannot afford to pay back the unemployment. Question being, if we claim bankruptcy in the US(shes a US citizen, I am Canadian) would it effect our Canadian credit? Basically limiting us from owning a home here for 7 years or so.We have been working on her residency paperwork and might think bankruptcy may be reasonable after the fact it is to be granted. Thank You for insightful comments

Can you alter the paragraph to make it sound more professional?

It is obvious that people cannot avoid life situations, but they can prepare themselves mentally to fight depression and high stress levels. In order to prepare they must be aware of the techniques to manage depression symptoms. Studies have proved that shouting or screaming helps to reduce stress levels. Consulting people about the problem releases anxiety and also help to develop interpersonal communication. Moreover, sharing information might enable people to find the perfect solution to the problem. Trusted friends and family members are usually the appropriate candidates.

If there was one question you would ask Jesus face to face, what would it be?

I know what I would ask him. I would say "Lord, do you like pickles? I have been pondering on this question for quite some time. Does our lord and saviour like pickles? Hmmm, kinda makes you think doesn't it?

What is Youngstown to you?

I am just pondering people's opinions of y-town. (Youngstown, OH). I am only looking for first hand accounts. Thanks

Is kingdom hearts 2 a good game?

I have played kingdom hearts 1,birth by sleep,and chain of memories. I wanted to know if its a good game since i that time i dropped the ps2 and bought a ps3 and was pondering the thought on buying kingdom hearts 2 and playing it.

How to scrapbook about a novel?

We have a year-end assignment of a scrapbook with a theme of a novel of our choice. The scrapbook should contain 10 entries of creative and insightful understanding things that includes visual and written entries. i need ideas for the things for the scrapbook because i really can't think of anything. also my novel of choice has been made into a movie (not twilight) , but not allowed to use pictures from the movie.

Does usps ship on saturday?

I recently bought merchandise on ebay it was shiped by ups ground on fri but didn't get any traction cause ups doesn't ship on weekends so i was pondering as to why he did it i asked him why he didn't ship by the post office cause I believe usps has a 6day workweek meaning it would of shiped on sat he said usps don't ship on weekends where he lives i thought he was lying so not sure whose telling the truth

I think it is completely unfair?

I've found that Y!A sucks...and sometimes when you click on a question it will tell you it's deleted until you refresh your browser and then it appears. Stupid Y!A. (of course that's not always the case...but Y!A still sucks)

What's the farthest apart two people could be when dating before its illegal?

I've been pondering on this question for years. Does it matter? Could a 14 year old date say a...25 year old? Or would it be illegal?

If your partner says to you...?

I'd think that I must have been mistaken to be with that person, given how badly they think of themselves. And say "O.K.", then leave.

Is Mythology considered to be an actual religion?

i know it might be considered to some,but i am trying to ponder this,your answers will be very helpful,thanks.

What can I study in university? Please help me?

I like to travel and I like to meet interesting and insightful people. What can I study? I hold interests in philosophy, psychology, culture studies...stuff like that, but listen, I DO NOT want to become a professor at some uni or a philosopher or a psychologist! WHAT DO I DO?!

Do you still think about your past flames?

Yes, unfortunately I still do think of them from time to time. It's not something I can just leave behind like nothing ever happened. I don't know if I should even still be concerned about them.

If the heat and the mavericks replayed the series starting today who would win?

come on you know if they replayed the series today the heat would sweep the sorry @ss mavericks. the nba should be prepared for the wraith of the miami heat (once the lock out ends). 7 peat begins now. We the best!!!!

Yahoo Answers or Facebook?

I spend about 14 hours on Y!A a week and 10 on Facebook. I don't like Facebook much, but I'm currently stalking someone on there so I check it a lot :3

What can I do with a bachelor degree in Criminal Justice?

That's the degree I did and I'm a retail loss prevention manager. I consider it a great job and I earn more than most police officers and have a lot more sociable hours, much better working conditions and less danger.

Is it ok to be lazy, I cant seem to find anything that I'd like to do for the rest of my life.?

I grew up on the beaches of the warm east coast of South Africa. Some people say that i'm too relaxed, my Dad says if I were any more relaxed, I'd fall asleep. I have a 'cruisey', laid back nature, appropriately, I have the over grown hair and surf board to compliment it. I'm going to be 25 in november and I have an honors degree in graphic design. My problem is that I can't seem to muster any sort of enthusiasm for anything other than what I want to do. I've always been one to enjoy the simpler things in life (I mean things like surfing, good friends, good music etc etc, NOT weed or other crap like that), but lately it's dawned upon me that perhaps i'm just stone cold lazy. I'm not gonna beat around the bush with this, I do not like work, unfortunately, all the things I do enjoy are more like hobbies, there's not much chance at making a living out of them. And i'm not particularly talented at any one thing, so, not much option to specialize. So I don't really know what to do with myself. Please if you don't have anything helpful or insightful to say, I would appreciate that you keep your comments to yourself, because if you're thinking i'm just a lazy beach bum who needs to to grow up and take responsibility for himself, then believe me, you wouldn't be telling me anything I haven't heard a thousand times before. Thanks to all of you who actually did have a worth while comment or suggestion.

What does this dream mean?

It was early in the morning, my dad woke me up cause he slammed the bathroom door hard (he had to go to work) and I decided to keep sleeping. So I fell asleep again and started dreaming this scary dream. (for me it was scary cause I rarely have scary dreams or dream anything at all) I dreamed that, school was about to begin and I needed to get prepared for it. So I went in my room to look for my gym clothes, and you know how in dreams everything's messed up? so instead of getting a Gym t-shirt, I got a pillow. Anyways I heard my parents calling me, so I talked from the hallway that I have right outside my room and I replied, "No not now, I have to get ready for school" (cause they asked me if I could do something real quick) and my dad replied angrily, "NO. You're gonna do this, and do it NOW." and I left my door, a TINY bit open so I could see into the room and there was a light reflection on the door. As I was arguing with my parents, for some reason I decided to look into the light reflection and I saw this massive shadow of a lady, tied hair, big breasts, she was wearing a skirt and a sweater. and she was walking. Once I saw that, I SCREAMED (in my dreams) and ran downstairs... thats where the dream stopped. I woke up terrified, I couldnt move, I didnt wanna open my eyes, and I was home alone (except my dog) again it was 4:33 am and this dream got me SHOOKED. what does it mean? Does it even have a meaning?

My boyfriend doesn't want to have anal sex anymore?

My boyfriend and I had anal sex about a month ago- and haven't since. He used to love thinking about it, and was so excited to finally try it, but when we actually did it he got feces on his penis (it was both our first time doing anal, I really should have prepared more) and it seems to have turned him off for good. I still want to do anal, what should I do to make him want to have another go at it?

Where are the cheapest places to shop for food in Los Angeles?

As you can see by all of these replys there is no one place with the lowest prices. You have to use due diligence by checking newspapers and your mail for sales on what you need. Clipping coupons will help as long as you don;t buy something just because you have a coupon. I might add one tip, don't go shopping hungry, everything looks so tasty you end up buying too much.

Parents do you think I am cut out to be a teacher?

Well you typed up that paragraph pretty well, and that proves that you are not mentally ill or anything, so yes you can be a teacher. there are some stupid teachers out there believe me.

Quick, easy but yummy recipes?

So basically....I'm not that most fabulous cook, but I want to cook something for my fiance tonight. I have to go pick him up from work at like 10 and I'll probably have to go buy whatever it is I end up making so I would prefer a meal that I can prepare and cook in about an hour. This isn't a special occasion kind of meal, I just want to cook for him because usually I'm at work when he's home so he usually cooks, so I'd like to return the favor :)

Is my bf a hypocrit or am I overreacting?

My bf and I are 24. Been together 8 years and he's the only guy I've been with. So the past months his band is preparing to tour and he is doing all the work out of 6 bandmates. So it has been pissing him off to the point he was going to fight one yesterday yet today he has a show which is currently going on n he texts me he doesn't want me to go when I asked what time there playing because he says he just wants to drink n chill with his band, yet his band is never there for him, he talks bad abut them n hates them yet his gf who has been there for him for yrs n all this time helping him prepare for the tour because his band is lazy n this is how he acts? Should I not be upset?

Where can i learn some algebra 2 lessons that are used in chemistry?

i am a freshman going into sophmore year. ive taken honors geometry and biology already and am taking chemistry and algebra 2 next year. my biology teacher recommends that i learn some algebra 2 over summer to be prepared for chem, but all the lessons ive found are not very detailed, and i dont wanna have to buy lessons. plz help!

In your opinion, do the young stars and starlets in Hollywood schedule their train wrecks?

I've noticed a pattern in their devolving persona's whereby they seem never to be in crisis at the same time as each other. Do they really have people who manage their careers to this point? I've heard that their are, yet am left wondering. Doesn't seem to have worked well for Lindsay Lohan if this is true, as I would imagine not many insurance companies would cover her for a movie. Also, if Hollywood is that corrupt, I fail to see how Charlie Sheen's last episode served him except - unless - he wanted out of a contract making 2 1/2 men. Just pondering, and really hoping to hear some opinions on this subject.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

What kind of unique dish should i cook ?

I am doing a project on how different cooking methods cause different changes in foods and make our diet more interesting. Hence , i have to choose a specific food product and prepare some unique dishes to illustrate this. Any unique dishes out there that are rather easy to make?

Ramadhan: I wonder how would you have tackled?

That is not a test Allaah gave me, it is a test Allaah gave those rulers and not many of them are responding very well because they are not about living morally. If they were about doing what was right, their people would have no cause to rise up against them.

Advise my family is not understanding!!?

me and my bro want to join swimming classes as we r having summer holidays..we have swimming experience there is a coach over there too but they don't allow us to go there..plus they don't even allow us to go in anearby park..i m 19 years old and my bro is 14..plus it's tym for my university nw as i m done with my high school but for uni one need to prepare for entry test even if u hve good grades and for entry test we have to go to other city..that other city is just at a drive of 2 hours away from here but my parenst are not letting me go there i donno y.. i tried to ask them a several times the reason for having restrictions upon us but thye neva give any satisfied answer..they even never reply to our answers and if we even say them we want to go outside they ignore us and often says that their children are mad..is saying them to let us go to university bad?is going to swimming bad?i tried to make them understand the things several times but they don't..plus they r very rich people not poor that they can't afford our studies..please give an advise

I am coming up on my 2 year anniversary with my Girlfriend?

I'm pondering some ideas about what to get her. I'm obviously taking her out to eat somewhere nice then something fun. I need some ideas in what to get her as a gift. Please help!

My friend dumped me and I am upset?

I think she has been observing you and doesn't agree with many or most of your choices. There's nothing you can d about it, this is how she feels about you. Now you know she wasn't a real friend. Some people are strange like that. I had a friend for several years and we were both there for each other then all of a sudden she stopped talking to me completely and I think it's because I stopped giving her info on something she wanted to always know about. It was hard but I realized she was only interested in our friendship for that reason the entire time. You will meet other friends, so don't worry. Forget her, one day she will really need you and then she'll see you really were a good friend. Now that things seem to be going well w her husband she no longer cares for you. So screw her, things won't always remain that way between them.

What is jail like for girls?

Well I broke into a house last night and tried robbing it anyways the cops showed up and I fled band I know it's only a matter of time b4 in arrested so I wanna b prepared w everything that's gonna happen to me such as getting booked daily life the cell meals strip searches ect thx

Has anyone been in this situation...?

I think your teacher is a sexual predator and maybe grooming you for intercourse. Have you been offered sweets or the chance to touch some puppies in the secret cave or play the latest video games in the "guys den" if so you really must contact your local law enforcement agencyy. Do it quick don't let yourself become another statistic.

Want to take care of credit, is paying off old debt really not worth it?

When i turned 18 i went crazy with credit cards, took out about 4 of them. I eventually didnt pay them off, got charged off, went to collections. 5 years later, 23 years old, i get denied an auto loan, pull up my credit, credit score of 544. I have no idea where to start. all my debt are old, and i need to raise my credit score so i can get a loan. I feel very angry that i didnt take of my credit, i just wish i had known and been more insightful. I have started to pay off the settlements that the credit card companies want, but then i realized that tht wont improve my score anyways because its negative and paid or not paid it will still stay on for at least 7 years. I really need to improve my credit score and i have no idea where to start or what to do...can you please point me in the right direction?

0.999....= 1 argument?

I think your dilemma is caused by your multiplication of infinity and zero - that product is undefined and does not equal zero, and therefore the equation is invalid at that point.

What are some theoretical tests in understanding whats important?

Who needs theoretical tests?! The best test is the practical test: Stop doing it and see what happens.

Should I go to College or not?

Yes, it'll get you a job somewhere, college isn't only career based, it's experienced based. You can join so much research programs etc. It's quite an experience.

How can somebody say emotions have nothing to do with logic?

You can use both logic and emotion. It's like how politicians use scare tactics like "terrorism" and "socialism" to freak out Americans. This has no logic behind it. Now if you had solid evidence backing these up then it's both

Bills that need to be payed?

Hey, I'm 15 and I want to be prepared for the real world. can someone please tell me all the bills that need to be payed each month and an estimate on how much it would cost. I would ask my mom and dad but they suck at this stuff.

What is the difference between Atheists And Christians?

The difference is that atheists do not claim to have an unjustified belief in an omnipotent creator and Christians do.

How do I earn the parent's trust?

I found a job that requires me to babysit full time for 3 school aged girls (8, 9 and 10). Basically, the mom can't afford a camp for 3 kids so she'd like me to keep them happy and entertained during the day. Since they're a little far, the babysitting would take place at my house. I am a little nervous about this because I am afraid there won't be enough space for them (my family of 5 lives in an apartment with 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, 2 balconies, a kitchen and a large living but they only have access to 1 bedroom, the living room, a bathroom, a balcony and the kitchen). Our house is clean, but we don't have a lot of toys/electronics. On the other side, we have lots of libraries, swimming pools, parks and playgrounds surrounding our community. Our neighbourhood is amazing, it's safe and quiet. The mom would like the girls to meet me a few times and play with me before I start babysitting. I really want this job, but I am nervous. What games should we play and how do I prepare before they come to our house? How do I earn the mom's trust?

What are some good workouts before I begin Muay Thai that will help me going into it?

I want to be pretty fit going into it, and i know workouts that can help, but if possible i would like to know some workouts that specifically help Muay Thai Training because i heard there is a lot of conditioning involved in Muay Thai training so i want to be somewhat prepared before i start. Also, it's ok if the workouts have weights involved.

Is it true that the more horrifying the crime, the more likely a jury is to find the defendant guilty?

The accused is viewed as innocent until proven guilty. I've been on jury duty and the judge repeated that fact a million times. So the jury can't go into the case thinking that the person is guilty. They go in on a blank slate and only make up their minds on the evidence shown.

Movies scenes talking about justice?

I am preparing a talk on the topic of 'Justice' - what it is and how it applies to us today. Does anybody know of any good movie or tv show scenes that talk about justice that I could show as an introduction to my talk? Anything smart, insightful of comical would be appreciated. Thanks

How do you know what to follow your gut or your heart?

I've pondered this many times and I really just don't know. I'm at a draw. So wondering what other people think. In some situations people would say without a doubt go with your gut, but if going with your gut breaks your heart and makes you spend countless hours thinking things over and over again then wasn't that the wrong choice? Or you go with your heart even though you know in your gut that not everything is right yet you hold out hope that things can or will be different? I think I am the latter of the two types. I go with my heart until my heart doesn't feel it anymore even if I know in my gut that something isn't exactly right in the end I always say that I never have doubts that way. It's hard to be sensible. Because I would always look back and wonder if things could have been different. If I go with my heart and my heart changes then I don't look back and wonder and have regret. The heart takes longer to fade though and can go back and forth so it's sometimes tricky. What's your thoughts?

Fifteen year old hit by car!?

You are out of luck. I doubt anyone would even look into your case. The agent that gave you the check was way out of line, but too many years have passed now. It probably would have helped if you had told your parents about the check.

Physician Assistant help!?

I'm in my senior year of high school and I have a 94% avg... all my marks throughout high school have been in the 90s except for one mark (I got an 87% in grade 10 french). I'm considering becoming a physician assistant and I was wondering if I work hard in university is this a realistic goal? I live in Canada and I know that physician assistants were recently introduced so their aren't very many programs, so would I be better off applying for the program in the USA after getting a bachelors degree? And can anyone with experience recommend a bachelors degree that would best prepare me for the program? Thanks! :)

My puppy has a rash on tummy and leg/arm pits?

My poor little Lilly. She will be 3 months tomorrow. Over the past about 5 days she has developed a rash on her tummy. It goes across her whole belly and is all red with little red spots and is particularly bad where her belly meets her arms and legs. Some days it has been worse then others because there were times when we thought it was going away but has yet to do so. We have not changed her diet which consists of authority large breed puppy food - bully sticks and bones. She does go out into the grass every day and her and her sister play all the time - the rash has not affected her eating, drinking, or personality in any way. We did take her to the vet the other day for another reason in which she needed an antibiotic, the vet gave us the option to do a skin scraping but he didn't make it seem like it was anything serious so we did not do it because we were already spending quite a bit that day. I have been giving her half a benedryl which he recommended to help her itchiness but I haven't noticed it helping much. I would like some suggestions as to what this could be and how to treat it, We are going on a last minute road trip this afternoon and I want to be prepared and want to be able to do whats best for princess Lillian.

I'm trying to export a movie from imovie 09 on my macbook pro. Filed not found?

It used to say error in using parameter list, but now it doesn't and now it says: "The project could not be prepared for publishing because an error occurred. (File not found)". How can I put back the file (if I moved it. I don't remember.) to the correct place, so I can export my imovie to idvd? Thanks for the help. I want to burn a video of my wedding to send to my mother in law. thanks Mac OS X 10.6

Binaural beats case studies and other information on binaural beats?

I am looking for legit documented case studies done on binaural beats. Specifically studies done in the gamma frequency to improve mental activity such as memory, problem solving, and alertness. If you have any other insightful information please feel free to post. I have recently started listening to "pure binaural beats" in the gamma frequency from youtube. Is it better, worse, or same to listen to "pure" binaural beats?

Whats the best/most insightful place in the world you have visited?

travelling to various places in the world is like one of my lifetime dreams, probably not gunna get to go everywhere so please share your thoughts and stories of places you've been :)

What products do I need to fix my badly sun damaged hair, and has recently been bleached blonde?

I've recently had my hair done at a salon, I usually get blonde highlights done every 3 months or so. For this summer I wanted to go lighter, a great hue of blonds, honeys, and platinum's were set in place. To go with my new color I wanted something new and fresh, so I had my stylist give me a cute neck length bob, with some textured layering in back. So cute, right! Here comes the bad part...I went to the beach a few days ago and I some how forgot to put leave-in conditioner in my hair, now my hair is a wreck!! It not just looks like a brassy old penny, but it looks and feels like hay! Realizing sections of my hair have never felt dryer I grabbed a piece from the back that felt the nastiest and it looks like I lit a flame to it! I was thinking of dying my hair back to my natural color (dark brown) so the brass and rust colors would be hidden, but blonde looks best on me, making my hair look fuller. By now you can see my dilemma, I can't necessarily cut my hair, it's already short and the back of my head has even shorter layers. Therefore, if I did ponder a "trim" it would probably come out like a pixie or the “Beckman” A-line and I'm not ready for hair that short. Also, I've considered going to my stylist, but I'm a realist and I can't spend any money right now since I just had my hair done. I'm in a bind what do I do? What products (fairly priced) would work best with my situation? Also, are there products that may be invaluable to me in the future at the beach or pool side? Please let me know and thank you for your time and help!

Isn't religion ultimately solipsistic in nature?

It seems more narcissistic to me. The thought that the entire universe was created simply for your benefit, that you are given the full attention of a perfect being, is narcissism at its most basic level.

I REALLY LIKE THIS guy <3?

I think you came off too strong. I would wait for him to make the next move if he doesn't feel too awkward around you, or start another conversation with him and tell him you just want to still be friends. He'll forget about it in a week or two, and he might start to like you back! You sound really nice, and you just need to get closer to him.

Why do i feel like my heart is in love with a sociopathic guy? am i sociopathic as well? shall i take action?

Oooops. If you are counterng or matchng fb fr fib. game for game, you are SO right on to take stock of the suton and yourself, before your nstncts and self-regard are corrodrd. Snce you`ve the intagrty to see ths already, t doesn`t mean that you`re socopathc but edgy mnd-games can be dffcult to resst f they are carryng attracton too. So, hope you are rave and self-carng enough yo fnd a wy to escape the psychologcal powergame. And stay wth it.f you are honest with you, then show that n your actions and perhaps you can avod the temptaton of verbal games. Really t` how youfeel about your ntegty, not his problem, that s yor prmary concern, though t s Doubtless, very very hard due to the roles innvolved. And you can do t and save the pan yo have and the exctement from snowballng. Love..... s for you, not for hurtng you, yes?

How do I get this girl?

I am 15 years old. I just finished my sophomore year in high school, and throughout the year I have been getting more and more into a girl named Lena. Lena is a cheerleader, extremely outgoing, very popular, and well I think you can picture her already. Extremely hot. I have hung out with her a few times and we have actually gotten quite close. She is actually very insightful and understanding and we help each other with problems. She has told me a few times that she could "see us dating in the future," or that "she's probably going to marry me" or that "she would have sex with me if we weren't so close." She has said all of these things on her own without any of my initiative. I usually have no problem flirting with girls or getting a girlfriend, but she seems different. I am outgoing, yet I rarely flirt with her, and if we do ever flirt she starts it. I guess I am afraid that she doesn't see me as more than a friend. I am pretty sure I could make her my girl, I am just not sure how to go about doing it. I don't know if she is playing hard to get, or if she doesn't like me at all, but so far I haven't been successful. Just a little advice please!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

I don want 2 study doctor as iwant to study astrophysics but i dont know if it is secure ?plz u change my life?

I have completed my 2 and preparing for MBBS entrance exam.but i think space science is more suited to me.but i dont know where to apply for it , will i get proper job ,will i be sustain my life,will have to regret to this decision whole life. I am in nepal , there are no any place to study astrophysics , i have to go abroad. how much it will cost....can we get scholarships. There is one in this field to ask about how is this proffesion, where do we get job etc. My parent say that iam free to choose my future, but i know they fear it as they know other profession beside doctor may not be sexure for me. I dont want to read any other subjects beside astrophysics or doctor?, plz someone help me. Its a very big deal to me. It would be gret if u r related to this proffesion.

Hey!!I want some suggestion.i have a competition in my school of advertisement.pls suggest some add.?

the topic is social awareness.i jst want a script.if u can jst provide an outline i may prepare a sript.i want it till 2 july 2011.plsssssssssssss.................

Rosalie, a wealthy widow, invited an acquaintance, Jonathan, to her home for dinner. Jonathan accepted the off?

Rosalie, a wealthy widow, invited an acquaintance, Jonathan, to her home for dinner. Jonathan accepted the offer and, eager to please her, spent lavishly in preparing for the evening. His purchases included a new blazer, new shoes, and expensive floral arrangement, and champagne. At the appointed time, Jonathan arrived at Rosalie’s house only to find that she had left for the evening. Jonathan wants to sue Rosalie to recover some of these expenses. Can he? Why or why not?

I need to know if we will be wiped out like the dinosaurs?

Yeah I need to know if we will be wiped out like the dinosaurs? Seems to me, it's not a question of if it happens, but when. Will we have colonised other places by then, or would that be it? Hadn't we better get a move on? I mean they cut the space budget, there's no contingency to prepare for hemorrhoids invading the earthbound skies so what hope is there left then for us all.. then?

Did Jesus claim to be God in flesh?

No he did not claim to be his father, but he did speak in parables most of the time, those who are meant to hear and understand will

Withdrawing from my boyfriend of 2 months, i'm scared, should we break up?

I suffer from clinical depression. I have been phyically abused before and I do get panic attacks now and then. I told him about these things. He's understanding and supportive but I'm scared it was a mistake revealing it. I just felt it was the right thing to do. I don't feel like rplying to his texts although we had so much of fun today. He kind of sees right through me as he is insightful. I don't know what to do. Did I mess this up

What is it about you that makes you beautiful?

making peoples day, no matter how crappy they are. complete strangers laugh at my randomess....is that bad??!?!??!

Atheists, who's quote is this?

You should try to read the words of your creator thousand of years of credibility in science, history and prophecy Wow and the Only book available for God thank God for Jesus and a Book that mankind has followed for thousands of years and never to waver for Gods words will be Forever

Can I ask a waiter for vegan french toast if it's not on the menu?

I could bring a recipe... They have really good french toast but I eat as little diary as possible so I was wondering, do you think I could ask for vegan french toast if I gave them a recipe so they could see how to prepare it without eggs and milk?

He loves me, but not in love with me?

My boyfriend and I really liked each other very much. At least that’s what I thought until he broke up with me…he said that he had liked another girl before he went out with me, and those feelings for her stirred back up again in the middle of our relationship. I don’t see him as a douchebag though, because he did like me a lot, and he knew that if he kept up our relationship, it would’ve hurt me because of his mixed feelings. What I’m getting onto is that wow, he still really cares a lot about me. He says I’m really special in his heart, that I’m a really good person and friend he could turn to. He said he loves me, but not in that way. He can still be really close to me, still be able to give me long hugs and kisses on the cheek. But not in that way. It saddens me that those gestures can’t be more than what I want it to be. I often wondered that if the girl he likes wasn’t around, if I could still be in that “romantic” part of his heart? I also sometimes ponder if I’m still able to win him back? I’m glad that he can still be so close to me and chooses to be. But…should I keep pursuing or should I just give up? Given this chance of being close to him…he is honestly the most caring guy I’ve ever met.

Help Lyrics.Musical Audition?Into the woods.I want to goh ome?

I am auditioning for into the woods in a couple of months and im preparing early because i have some tuff competition . I am 16 and I will be 16-17 during Into the woods. I am 5'10 im normal sized I sing tenor i have long blonde hair but im cutting it for auditions. i am singing I want to go home from BIG the musical.I am having trouble finding the lyrics. Help and any suggestions?

Deep Philosophical thoughts and opinions!!?

Philosophy is the search for truth. as philosophy is the interpretation of truth it is also an interpretaiom of what is right and wrong which makes it hard to avoid in life. And the most perplexing question in terms of philosophy is: What is truth?

What are some great channels on youtube?

I've found chow.com, and kirstendirksen which are more educational and insightful. I'd like to learn stuff, but anything you suggest I'll consider! I would prefer stuff that is professionally produced instead of webcam like productions. Thanks!

What should I major in?

You're only 13 if you wait a couple years until you are in high school you may have more insight into what you want to do with the rest of your life, so the best advice I can give to you is just to wait a couple years.

Pregnant but the baby's father doesn't want to know?

You have to wake up to the fact that he is only interested in you for the sex (love??) you can provide. He is not into the family way. Since he is not married to you, he does not have to maintain the child if he doesn't want to. You can keep it amicable by telling him that you only want his name on the birth cert and nothing more.

Why do I enjoy watching pregnancy vlogs?

I am 18 years old girl I am not pregnant nor I never have been. On YouTube I subscribe to lots of teen pregnant teens doing vlogs on there pregnancy and enjoy get to see them change during there pregnancy and see how there belly grows and what goes on in there lives and wait to see there vlogs with there baby's. I feel like I'm a part of there pregnancies.i also enjoy watching there excitement when there preparing for the baby to come i also TLC baby story and bring home baby and bring home multiples. Also if you doing teen pregnancy vlogs let me know your name and I will subscribe to you.

I came to a sudden eerie realization last night...?

I was laying awake in bed and I was doing the usual philosophical pondering. I asked myself if it is possible to have more than one consciousness in the same body. Then I realized what if my subconscious has is it's own sovereignty. If I don't control it who does?

Why isn't the marketplace set up for ultra luxury services to be more expensive?

I don't think that butlers will earn only $10-20 per hr. You might be right about cleaners, maids and cleaning services.The question is why the wage rate is different between mechanic and maid.You might list more, the doctor and the nurses, the chef and the cleaner etc. As a rule, it will be determine by the value of marginal product. The price multiplier by marginal product is higher in the case of auto mechanic. Moreover,it will depend on the elasticity of demand and the market structure. Inelastic demand will earn higher wage. A monopolist will earn even more.If he is the only auto mechanic in town,how much will he charge you?

Christian men, would you read a Bible commentary written by a woman?

Thanks for this question. Women are powerfully used by God in areas of spiritual leadership and teaching and preaching.

Why do people look at economic stats in measuring success?

Generally speaking yes, but when you take into account that the current administration has spent more in 2 months than all the previous administrations combined, you have to realize that things are going to get much much worse. We're looking at a crash of catastrophic proportions here not just the normal economic ebb and flow. We have to print more bills which means massive inflation and when we default on the $ we've borrowed we'll bottom out quickly. Growth is not silly to reference to when you realize the kind of massive debt we have. Even if the feds made the income tax rate 100% it would not even cover the interest on the debt we have now. When you have the normal ups and downs in an economy all of what you're saying applies but when the unemployment rate is still hovering at 9.1% not counting the people who have given up on work you know taxation is not going to increase revenue because there's not enough people contributing to the tax base. The massive spending is at fault. The kind of change we're looking at reaping from Obama is of catastrophic negative proportions because of all the spending. The libs really believe debt is just a number but we will at some point default. Even 100% taxation will not save us now!!!

Do people know that George Washington had four bullet holes in his Coat during an ambush and he wasn't touched?

People fail to acknowledge the power of the Almighty, but four bullet holes after the ambush by the French and Indians in the French and Indian War and he wasn't hurt or scathed, all officers were killed except for him. Now if that isn't divine providence I don't know what is, but it definitely shows that God was preparing Washington for something great.

Is my bf a hypocrit or am I overreacting?

My bf and I are 24. Been together 8 years and he's the only guy I've been with. So the past months his band is preparing to tour and he is doing all the work out of 6 bandmates. So it has been pissing him off to the point he was going to fight one yesterday yet today he has a show which is currently going on n he texts me he doesn't want me to go when I asked what time there playing because he says he just wants to drink n chill with his band, yet his band is never there for him, he talks bad abut them n hates them yet his gf who has been there for him for yrs n all this time helping him prepare for the tour because his band is lazy n this is how he acts? Should I not be upset?

What could be wrong with my engine?

I will say, good job on the narrative and spelling, but one thing you left out...what engine. I would guess the 3.1L ? if you are loosing coolant the problems will start. The computer will set a "limp home mode" and cause all kind of issues. In a 1998 OBDII car I would start with the codes set.

Extremely faint positive on EPT pregnancy test which then disappeared..what is going on? PLEASE HELP!?

My boyfriend and I are generally pretty careful when we have sex, but recently we've resorted to the withdrawal method. My period is now 8-9 days late. I've been fatigued, moody, have been urinating more frequently than normal, my breast and nipples are extremely tender and swollen, I am bloated, and I've had a dull ache in my lower back that won't go away along with some slight cramping. Along with being more tired than usual, whenever I lay down to sleep, I cannot seem to fall asleep easily and it is so frustrating! Also, I seem to get very hungry and crave a particular meal (i.e. yesterday it was blackened haddock over caesar salad from my work), but as soon as I cleared my plate, I felt nauseous the rest of the day and I don't even want to look at blackened haddock again! This seems to have been happening more often lately..as I type this I am also feeling rather queasy..so I took two EPT pregnancy tests this morning, the first which came back definitely negative and the second came back with a very faint positive line that stayed for about 3 minutes then disappeared. What is going on?! Any helpful/insightful/experienced advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks! :)

How did reading Ishmael effect you, if at all?

Daniel Quinn's Ishmael has had its effect on people world wide, share your story. Personally I thought The Story of B was the most insightful of the 3 books.

Why do I enjoy watching things about pregnancy?

I am 18 years old girl I am not pregnant nor I never have been. On YouTube I subscribe to lots of teen pregnant teens doing vlogs on there pregnancy and enjoy get to see them change during there pregnancy and see how there belly grows and what goes on in there lives and wait to see there vlogs with there baby's. I feel like I'm a part of there pregnancies.i also enjoy watching there excitement when there preparing for the baby to come i also TLC baby story and bring home baby and bring home multiples. Also if you doing teen pregnancy vlogs let me know your name and I will subscribe to you.

Fiancee doesn't enjoy conversation. Any Ideas?

If his parents act the same way, you can see where he gets it from. Most people do not change when they get married---they only get worse. Are you sure you want to live this way for the rest of your life? If you've discussed it with him, and he hasn't seen your side of it and changed, I doubt that he ever will. I feel sorry for you if you marry him.

Nvidia Graphics Card Comparison?

After a lot of pondering about what cars to get i have settled on a Geforce 9800gt 1gb however i have a limited knowledge of the latest tech and was wondering if the newer nvidia cards are better so is there any better card i could get for the same price as a 9800gt?

I missed 1 month of my period i tested twice and it was negative? Am I pregnant?

I feel some pregnancy symptoms but I'am also stressed this past few days? I gave birth a year ago so I prepared for my baby girl's birthday.I don't know what to do? Am I pregnant?

What should i do after BE(ECE)??ME OR MBA?please help me for my right carrer.....I m confused now.?

I m doing BE 3RD year with 1st class.i want to make money in my life though i m poor guy.i m studying in govt engg college with 70% marks.i want to make my big house and buy a BMW AND MERCEDES CAR.i m very much confused.plz give me proper guidance...So i can start preparing for GATE OR CAT.

Is it ok to be funny whwn I'm suppose to be scary?

Ok, I was pondering last night about a thing my friends family does during halloween called "The Haunted Yard". I play as the butcher and as I'm in my butcher shop, I do my thing and scare people. But sometimes all I do is make them laugh because I crack jokes and I'm naturally a funny guy, not a scary guy. Is it ok to be funny instead of being scary? Or could I do a mixture of both? I know it's weird to ask out of season, but it was kinda bugging me.

I got written up at work? HELP! Full Points?

This happened to me when I started working at a store. I think it is very common, and since you were brand new to the register, the manager most definitely knows you did not steal. Most people go through it, and they're talking about you being written up because they probably have to and because they want you to take the job seriously. So, you are handling this correctly. I would even ask your manager for more training if you aren't comfortable, which is only fair.

Friday, July 15, 2011

What would you think of a man that was considering having a child by a surrogate?

I'm a man of almost 30, I've no real want to be married and am doing rather well. However, I'd like to have a child at some point. I've been pondering possibly doing so by surrogacy and then hiring a nanny or au pair to lend a hand. Opinions?

Can a girl enjoy hook ups and not be easy at the same time?

Casual light making-out is one thing but heavy making-out is something a nice girl doesn't indulge in or she's headed for T-R-O-U-B-L-E. Maybe you should take a break from dating hon, until you can appreciate it more. Dating should lead to marriage... eventually.

Historically, why did complex cultures lead to a need to establish bureaucracies?

Is it because there were too many opinions that government couldn't be run by one single person? If not, what are some other points? Thanks for your insightful responses! =]

What is taught in a high school philosophy class?

I've been having second thoughts about signing up for a philosophy course my senior year. I thought it might be interesting because I could learn about the ancient philosophers and how they influenced the development of the present world, but actually I have no interest in pondering answers to the "big questions" since I'm more of a concrete thinker. What do philosophy classes focus on? Would it be worth it for me for me to take the class?

In love with my cousin?

If she is not blood related then I don't think it matters 2 much, but if she is I would avoid it. Sounds like u care alot for this girl :)

Guppy breeding not working?

I have a 20gal community tank with some different kinds of fish including 4 female guppies and 2 male guppies that I am trying to mate. They've been in there for about 1-2 months and I havent seen any mating or anything. I even got a breeder box to prepare! :( The temperature is at 73 or 74 and the water is very clean) Could anyone tell me how to make my guppy breeding a success? The lady at the petstore told me it was easy...:/

Are Atheists weak minded people?

When I first heard about Atheism I thought it was insightful and revolutionary. But after doing some research I think it is for people that feel ostracized from their family or society. When I ask them about why they think the way they do they all parrot the same responses about not making claims, not having to offer an argument and so on. Do they realize how silly and hypocritical they sound?

Does this sound like OCD?

First of all I am 18. Ok so lately I can not seem to stop my mind from pondering on thoughts. I definitely have anxiety and maybe a minor depression. I have been looking up a alot of mental disorders and I became so worried that I would get schizophrenia, I took a self test exam for it but got a 0 so even though I was positive I didn't have it, I still couldn't stop worrying about it. I was so scared I would start hearing voices and seeing hallucinations and start getting symptoms. But eventually that went away and as it soon as it did I started worrying over other things. Like recently I've been thinking about is it right to eat meat, being that it was an animal? I mean I love steak, I have all my life and never would have questioned myself about that. Now I am so worried that I won't ever be able to eat it again. Even though I keep telling myself that its fine, its part of the food chain all this stuff, I can't seem to get it off my mind. Thoughs like this, where I can convince myself that its all false but then it will come at a different angle and totally seem to be true again. Sound like OCD? What should I do?

Do I have OCD? im just wondering because?

for the past 3 weeks i have been having difficulty trying to sleep because i keep worrying from the smallest to the largest of things such as whether the mark i saw was actually my mark, about others, to the point where i sleep at 1-2am in the morning. As well if i felt somethings missing i start pondering what it could be and this happened before when i have packed it up in my bag.

Repost: Am I prepared to get a fish and am I prepared to get a couple of fish?

I been saving up to get a new fish. I got a 50 gallon tank and a filter. And I might buy a heater for the fish tanks. I already set everything out. I also got this really cool fish house that's shaped like a sunken pirate ship ^.^, I bought those little live plants to put in the tank. I put the stuff on a large table where it isn't too bright or too dark, I'd call it dim or a little lighter than dim. I haven't bought any food yet but I lan to get it today. And which fish could I get? I don't want to get a fish that has too much room or not enough. Also, can a fish get lonely if I only get one? Also I was wondering what names [Yeah I really want to name them] that I picked out are cute, I'm thinking Sea turtle or Dolphin or Goat. Which ones I can't decide.Also I was wondering where is best to get a new fish? Thanks I'm a new soon-to-be fish owner. Thanks a lot ^.^

Husbands and wives, do I seem cut out to be a teacher?

Teaching requires a BA or BS and a one year teaching credential program. So, this means you are barely into your bachelors. Wait until you are even applying to your teacher credential program to worry about this, you are YEARS away.

What is your reaction to this movie scene I wrote?

Very intresting. Might wanna include like a magazne cover of the father. like killer caught or something similar. And then galre at teh magazinethen have a picture or two the father in the house and then tie them together with him crying holding the picture mentioning of the dad

Can you watch my sad video i just made and tell if you think its good?

I like it, but a lot of those images could be arguments against your title. Especially the floods and the 9/11 photo which was allegedly done in the name of Allah. I don't necessarily disagree, but you will receive a lot of negative reactions to it because of the title. Also, I lol'd at the train at :52. I've seen the image before, and it's just funny.

How to scrapbook about a novel?

We have a year-end assignment of a scrapbook with a theme of a novel of our choice. The scrapbook should contain 10 entries of creative and insightful understanding things that includes visual and written entries. i need ideas for the things for the scrapbook because i really can't think of anything. also my novel of choice has been made into a movie (not twilight) , but not allowed to use pictures from the movie.

Is this a good way to prepare for the weekend?

I wake up every Friday morning at 7 am, then I go downstairs and gotta get my bowl, gotta get my cereal. I then walk to the bus stop where I see my friends, spend 45 minutes with "front seat back seat dilemma" and finally decide on the only seat that was available the whole time. While in the car driving to school, me and my friends start casually singing and it suddenly turns into night time where we start partying on top of the car. While doing this, I make sure to tell my so called friends all the days of the week in order like we are a disney chanel cartoon. Then we resume partying, constantly switching lanes on the highway, and drinking. When it gets close to midnight, a random pedophile starts singing about me in his car, and that is how I get pumped for the weekend. I think I am clinically depressed after repeating this routine every Friday, i party all the time when I should be doing homework and my parents don't even care. What do I do?

Something to ponder or to do ...?

as an eye opener for yourself, write a letter to yourself, about anything and see how you feel/reaction is upon reading your letter, would it require a respond

How much the HR dept. is required to tell you about your interview by law?

This is fair, and is used in order to test your knowledge in your field. It seems pretty acceptable that an employer is making sure that what you say your skills are actually reflect your skills.

What is the name/type of packaging used for Pillsbury/Nestle "Brean and Bake" cookie dough?

I am pondering jumping into the cookie dough business and would realy love to package my product in a similar fashion as the Pillsbury and Nestle "Break and Bake" cookie dough products. I'm trying to do some research, but cant figure out the name or process of how this is done. Can anybody out there help me out?? Thanks!

I really don't understand this girl.?

She likes you as a friend but nothing more. She is afraid that if she showed interests in the things that you like, you might be looking forward to a relationship. She cares about you and respects you as a friend, however, she may want it to stay that way. Sometimes it takes a while for a relationship to progress. It just isn't time yet.

New career with little schooling age 39?

Yes you could change your job my mom was 32 when she finally quite her old job and went to college now she's an RN and if you don't like being a firefighter then I would say change it cause you dont want to be stuck at that job for another 20 or 30 years if you don't like it

What is Obama and the Democrats trying to do ?

What's the point of asking a question if you're not going to be open minded nor care about what anyone else says.

I would like to go to an Ivy League school. How can I begin to prepare for it?

Everyone applying to the top schools has the highest grades in the hardest classes and very high test scores, and Harvard took 6% of applicants this year. You need all that and a lot more to get in. The 'lot more' would be best if it were related to your major, something unique and impressive, and something that makes you stand out. They don't require a 4.0 - having one doesn't mean you'll get in, and not having one doesn't mean you won't. Right now, you don't have anything that makes you stand out, and you haven't listed any good reasons for attending a top school ('it's really impressive' or 'it's the only good school I've heard of' are not good reasons).

Do animals have souls?

I've been pondering this question for quite some time now. The Bible says nothing about them having a soul. Actually I would feel pretty bad if my puppy couldn't join me in Heaven. But then I think there was something in the Bible that God will ride down on a white horse in the end of the world. I just want to know if you think animals go to Heaven.

Not sure how to handle this potential marriage situation... Advice Please!?

The answer is simple... DON'T MARRY HER IF YOU DON'T LIKE HER AS A PERSON. And don't worry about what other people say... because they can only voice their opinion. At the end of the day, the choice is youurs and it's a huge choice. Don't spend the rest of your life with someone that makes you unhappy just to make your friend happy. He should understand that getting married isn't a game. If you decide to not go through with it, it will save you a lot of trouble and money in the long run if you feel she isn't the girl for you.

Book for new baby in a complicated situation ...?

Hi. So I'm in a slightly complicated situation. My fiance has 2 children from a previous relationship (two girls, age 5 and 10). My fiance and I just found out we are expecting in January, 2012! Since we've told the girls the news, the younger one has had quite a few temper tantrums which I'll bet are related the the news. I am looking to get her a book or maybe a movie or something that might help her prepare for this huge change thats about to happen, however, all the books say "mommy and daddy", and I'm only her stepmother, so that kind of book wouldn't be helpful. Anyone out there know of a book that may be helpful? Thank you!

Is this a trait of pisces moon?

I'm a Pisces and these traits tend to be traits I have. I look for reasons in everything and ponder things of such. I always wonder what people, including myself will look like in the years to come. Hope I helped! :)

Writing an emotional story ...?

Don't have anything happen. Sometimes, the best short stories are those written about a short time period. Maybe just describe someone with advanced Parkinson's disease (early onset perhaps), and describe them, and their thoughts. Third person is often good for those kind of stories, first person is all about impetus, so if you use third person it slows down the story, which is good if you are only writing about a short period of time.

Does anyone know the name of this movie or at least list an actor from it?

I'm looking for the name of a movie I saw on T.V. about 3 months back. It was a comedy about a girl who wants to lose her virginity to her dream guy before graduating highschool (I believe), but he tells her he won't sleep with her b/c she's a virgin so she goes to a house party with her promiscuous best friend and her friend tries to get her to sleep with a guy (or a few guys) at the party so she can win over her crush. The girl's best friend starts with trying to give her a "make over" by telling her to shave her nether regions at the party to prepare for sex and she also talks her into putting raw chicken breasts into her bra to make her breasts seem larger. All of these things, including her attempts to sleep with guys at the party, goes terribly awry. Pretty much, you end up finding out at the end of the movie that the girl's crush was homosexual and in the closet (which was why he wouldn't have sex with her and used her being a virgin as an excuse) and the girl winds up losing her virginity to her other best (guy) friend; who is also a virgin; who was always in love with her, but never knew how to tell her. It was a pretty funny movie and I'd like to see it again, but I don't know the name, I believe the year it came out was 2008.

Which Chinese Golden Age was greater? The Tang or Song?

Which Golden Age was greater (in your opinion), The Golden Age of the Tang or of the Song? Or are they considered equal or not comparable. This question has had me pondering for awhile.

Can a girl enjoy hook ups and not be easy at the same time?

in my opinion, being easy means throwing yourself at any guy you see, letting them treat you anyway they want, wearing slutty clothes to get attention, basically giving them the ish without respect. and my definition of hooking up is making out. the only reason i enjoy them is because i feel like i get bored of any relationship after a month, which is pathetic i know, so i just stick to hook ups because i feel like you could have more fun and be less serious, and it's much easier for me to mess up in a relationship, so i'd rather not be in one, and at this age, i feel like i'm not really ready for a serious relationship where both partners are insightful towards eachother. what do you think?

Windows 7 Reinstallataion fix on dell laptop?

I am using Dell Inspiron with win7 proffesional 64-bit (64bit ultimate earlier), recently i have just suffered a blue screen of death, i had no idea what to do about it so i just send it to manufacturers for replacement. All i want to know, if i re-install windows while i suffer from this problem due to which i am unable to operate windows, would this help me out without preparing for any hardware stuff. In easy words, i meana if i install windows 7 64bit again on the laptop suffering from blue screen, would it solve my problem or would i keep recieving those screen errors.?

I've lost the passion for art, and I am suppose to be an artist. I no longer care.?

You're grieving from all the above and that's what is keeping you from doing what you love to do. You don't just stop being an artist, you already proved that you are, and it's so normal to go through a rough patch or a dry spell. You don't care right now because everything else needs your time and devotion at the moment. That doesn't mean you'll never ever go back to sculpting. You need just to work on yourself. Breathe. You're recovering from a devastating blow, it would be absolutely normal to drop everything else to deal with it. Then one day you'll find yourself longing to do it again or musing over an idea, and hey - you're back at it. Just be patient with yourself and keep yourself in habit by doing a sketch journal.

Looking for interpretation on a dream of tigers?

I woke from a weird dream this morning. I was lying in bed and saw two tigers. One was sauntering about in the distance and the other was coming out of something (can’t remember what – a cage possibly) and immediately started towards me. I had a brief moment of fear that switched to hope as the tiger came closer. Then the tiger jumped up on the bed with me. I think we spoke (can’t remember what was said but any doubt or lingering fear dissolved) before it pulled me in with its paws and licked me as I went back to sleep now feeling comforted. The dream also had an odd eroticism to it. I think I have an idea of the meaning based on various dream interpretation sources but thought I might get some insightful feedback with a post.

What kind of tea is this?

So i went to an indian store and found chinese green tea in a metal can, after i bought it i looked inside and im not sure what kind of tea it is. I usually buy bagged tea so i wanted to try something different. It looks kind of like shriveled leaves(?) and kind of like seeds or woodchips. What kind of tea is this and how do i prepare it?

What do you think of the ending of Stephenie Meyer's book Breaking Dawn?

The last book was sooo disappointing. The whole book wasn't that good and on some parts just didn't make sense. The book just didn't have a good story line and felt like some scenes Stephenie just threw in for fans. What i am talking about is the ending, i feel like after she had her baby they were building up suspense for this big fight scene with the volturi. We have to listen to Bella talk on and on how terrified she was, and they have half of the book to preparing for a fight scene. All of the other vampires come to back them up, Bella has a back up plan for Renesmee just in case they are killed, and i was expecting some excitement. Then they talk a little... decide not to fight.. the volturi go home... bella and edward have sex.. happily ever after, yea, done, the end!!? I get that its a Romance but that left me with my mouth open thinking wtf!!! I feel like this book went on and on with pointless chapters. Don't even get me started with the whole Jacob ending up with bella's baby, I think he should have been with Leah plus that was just weird and ewww. And Charlie would have freaked out about Jacob being a werewolf and Bella being a vampire but nooo he's all thats fine when can we have lunch!!!? Anyway sorry if i offended anyone but that's my opinion. What do you think about the book and its ending??

Can a girl enjoy hook ups and not be easy at the same time?

in my opinion, being easy means throwing yourself at any guy you see, letting them treat you anyway they want, wearing slutty clothes to get attention, basically giving them the ish without respect. and my definition of hooking up is making out. the only reason i enjoy them is because i feel like i get bored of any relationship after a month, which is pathetic i know, so i just stick to hook ups because i feel like you could have more fun and be less serious, and it's much easier for me to mess up in a relationship, so i'd rather not be in one, and at this age, i feel like i'm not really ready for a serious relationship where both partners are insightful towards eachother. what do you think?

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Does using car A/C at higher/lower waste more/less gas?

I've been pondering this, but as long as it's on it should make no difference, or at least not a noticeable difference. Am I wrong?

How do I improve my mind to college level work?

Im a recent high school graduate and I wasn't a hot-shot or did very well....but yes im trying to take the big leap and prepare myself....do i need to work on 'critical thinking' ? memory capability? thinking outside the box? alot of people say american education and college is a joke too but yea how do i get smarter? i did have ADHD tho not very severe and came out of Special Ed. i know this isn;'t too hard ..

What Do You Think Of The Beginning Of My Book?

The second sentence sounds like a question. Shouldn't there me a question mark? Sky is a guy's name? Since when? I'm just kidding :) But seriously, you lost my interest. Try to make it less... like a munch of unappealing words that no one has time to read. Good luck with that.

One in the pink two in the stink?

So for the past few week my girlfriend Sandra and I have been pondering ANAL sex. I know the dangers of Satan coming through her butthole and stealing my man genitals are very very likely, and I do not know what to do. We both want to have sex with her anus, but I do not want my penis to be thrown into a never ending void. Is there anything i can do to prevent this. I am severely allergic to all types of condoms and I like it when its dirty, Please help I don't want to lose my little willy.

Should i just ditch all my friends?

yeah I just had to do the same thing b/c I woke up and realized that all my friends are ***holes and I don't need to hang out with them to enjoy myself. I realized I needed to get a group of friends who actually care about me and its been way better ever since

Which name do you like more?

My first name is Dan and my middle name is Phillip. Personally, I don't like "Dan". Phillip isn't much better either. But I want to know what you guys think. Which name do you like more and why? Dan just sounds so plain, boring and for some, Biblical (I get called 'Daniel' a lot). Part of me wants me to go by my middle name but I've lived as Dan my whole life. What do you think? A thoughtful and insightful answer is gonna get my 10 points.

What is a $35-50k on average job where I can work directly with wild animals?

It would depend on how high of a degree you earn, experience, and WHO you work for. Yes, these jobs can be in that pay range..but it would depend on all of the above. Yes, as a zoology major you will have to take lots of chemistry and physics, which are both basically a lot of math. If math is not your strong point you may need a tutor to get through these. If you are strong at your science based classes..this should help your GPA if you don't get great grades in the "math" classes. General Ed is general Ed...same requirements for all majors. Once you transfer to a 4 year university is when you will take all your specialized classes. Do get all your general ed out of the way before then as it is a lot cheaper to do it at a community college.

I need to if he is diggin me?

i have been crushing on the columbian guy whos daughter is in my class. we had friendly txetes back and forth nothing to big just harmless flirting. Well i have been thinking about moving out of state and i told him about it and to my surprisethey other day he came in my class and sat in front of me and just started talking and asking question about where i grew up and he told me alot about his self and one thing he told me was that our birthdays are only two days apart, We are both cancers. He also told me about his work and where he is from and alittle about his friends ans just an long very insightful conversation. . the issue is that he has a girlfriend and i have told him that i am in the middle of a divorce, he also knows that i really dont know people here. he is columbian and i am african american. i have let him know i was interested in him and although he has not said anything yea or nah we have been talking more and i can feel him straing and watching me everytime i see him. i even seen him look around for me when i leave his sight, whats the deal with this guy plz help

I would like advice on a paper I need to write.?

I am to select a fictional short story, book, or play about the working class, and then analyze the work for concerns, interactions of poor and non-poor characters, whether it was insightful, and whether the author seemed to care about or be condescending toward the working class characters. I'm open to any suggestions, thanks.

Great White Sharks as Pets?

If your main goal is to rid yourself of pesky neighborhood cats, might I suggest adopting a pet honey badger? They're crazy. They'll kill every last cat in the neighborhood.

Is my bf a hypocrit or am I overreacting?

My bf and I are 24. Been together 8 years and he's the only guy I've been with. So the past months his band is preparing to tour and he is doing all the work out of 6 bandmates. So it has been pissing him off to the point he was going to fight one yesterday yet today he has a show which is currently going on n he texts me he doesn't want me to go when I asked what time there playing because he says he just wants to drink n chill with his band, yet his band is never there for him, he talks bad abut them n hates them yet his gf who has been there for him for yrs n all this time helping him prepare for the tour because his band is lazy n this is how he acts? Should I not be upset?

So I'm 17, and I just found out I'm pregnant, what specifically is going to difficult?

I am 18 and pregnant.. You should read baby books.! Those have tons of details and even the smallest things us soon to be mothers should look out for. Good luck and congrats !!!!!!!!!!

South Park quote for graduation?

I am helping one of my friends write her valedictorian speech for graduation this Saturday and she is looking for quotes to use. I have loved south park over the years and have come to respect Matt and Trey as two of the most insightful people in the media and am trying to find a good quote from them either in interviews or on the show to go with the speech. It can be about friendship, education, the future, responsibility, or any other theme that could be associated with this period in life. Does anyone have any quotes that come to mind?

What is your reaction to this movie scene I wrote?

Love the very first sentence (which i will not repeat lol) and straight away i got a good vibe about it. I was right, it was really good. I can't explain further, sorry.

Can friends with benefits progress into a real relationship?

I'm sorry to say but your heading no where. In f*ck buddy situations, one always get hurt cause they develop feelings. He obvious isn't into anything else with you and no matter what sweet things he says, he still won't date you. You need to end it fast to spare you the pain. Be strong. It'll make you feel far better to be free and stable.

How much would you be prepared to pay for a totally 'British' made cotton T Shirt?

Cotton is not cheap to produce if you're a green economist but in order to get young people off the dole and into work in the UK and make enough money to make a factory IN THE UK sustainable with British workers, cutting out the carbon footprint of a sea voyage or plane ride from the Far East, would you be prepared to buy BRITISH? If so, how much would you pay?

Isn't a little terrorism at least somewhat preferable to never-ending war?

The thing is what is terrorism. It seems to be what we want it to be. The taliban attacking our troops.....thats terrorism, our troops invading a country and killing nearly 200,000 of its inhabitants as a result....justified military action.

Why do I feel like this? Answer please?

Well just hang out with you're friends while he's there and just become friends and later on when you are actually friends you can help him.

The world as it is - do you understand?

Find another job - something you like doing. Find another partner - one who won't **** around on you. Stop whining, get off your *** and do something.

I am a tenant in a housing association property that is riddled with vermin. what are my rights?

i moved in in may last year when signing the tenancy agreement it was already well known that they had an infestation yet they never bothered to telll me this. it is the housing associations fault as these flats were thrown up quickly and the pest control man said they never dug down far enough when they was built and so many coverings left unopen. he then left after few visits saying no more could be done. i fell behing with arrears of only around 300 replacing clothes linen eating out as theres no way you can store or prepare food here as they come out just after u do i have a 4 year old daughter who is terrified of mice and we have spent many evenings away from our home being on lil income paying out to eat out and travel late at night had its effect on what was left to spare coming up to the summer months was just making my arrears up as we can store food at this time of year and they now have decided to take me to court as i spent so long catching up. i feel like im living a nightmare just when i can relax because we are not over run with mice they put this on me what are my rights in court will they accept that i fell behind due to not being able to store or prepare food at home and replacing my childs clothes? whats my best course of action now? by the time i go to court next month all arrears will be paid up but then i will have the court costs!

How much is New York State unemployment insurance going to give me?

I currently have a job but my boss is on my about my performance, so I fear that if I don't meet his standards soon, I could be laid off. I'm trying to prepare myself for the worst and for if I can't find another job right away. Currently, I am taking home about 550 dollars a week. How much will the state give me based on that income?

Does Guitar Hero deserve a spot in Rock History?

You know, I hear a lot of guitarist putting down on GH and RB because they are "real" guitarist and now you have kids that "think" they can play guitar and go around bragging about their GH/RB skills. Really? Are their actually guitarist out there threatened by this in some way? It's a freakin' game, they're kids for God's sake. What I do know know is that these games not only motivated many kids to learn real guitar, but they also turned these kids on to bands like Mountain and other bands they would have otherwise never even heard of. I think the games deserve a lot of props for that. And for the people hating on these games...grow the f**k up already.

Can someone please edit this short paragraph for me please?

group effort....brainstorming....combined effort on the whole involved....working together...positive communication in a group atmosphere...solving the problem and not singling at any one person; blaming

How long should i wait to have sex with my boyfriend of 5 months?

im 19 and hes 23. hes much experienced then i am. basically im a virgin and idk how long i should wait is 5 months to early to give it up? please no immature answers. i want an insightful answer. or people who have been through this kind of situation

Is Stuyvesant High School life hard? I need a detail of everything in stuyvesant so i can prepare for it.?

Do they have swimming team? i am a seventh grader coming 8th grader in september. After i got my result in february, just say i got in, in june and august do i have to take any test or exam for the school for classes and teams before school start? Do i have to stay up late 'till 2 or 3 to finish work? Is there anyone who sleep in early time like in 9:30 or maybe 10??? thnxx and i would like to have a more enhace knowledge of Stuyvesant and it's class, club, team, teacher,environment, and sleep time .

Isn't it time to take America back from the union robber barons?

Trouble is then you just give it back to the big business robber barons. Let's give this country back to the American people.

Is it normal for guys to get more emotional as they grow older?

i dont know lol our english class has these insightful discussions about life and today ew talked about forgiveness and appeasement and i felt like breaking down LOL. >_< img rade 12 btw hahaha

Assassin's Creed Plot Question?

I'm pondering getting Assassin's Creed: Brotherhood, but I have never played Assassin's Creed before and I was wonderinf if I needed to know that storyline before i bought Brotherhood? Help Please?

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Cartilage piercing hellp?

ive had my cartilage pierced for over a year now and mine did the exact same thing. Good news though, because evetually the bubble will pop and go away. i had one and it was painful and black(had blood inside) and it was very disturbing. after about 4 months mine popped and i cleaned it with peroxide and it didnt come back. i would recomend that you keep the earring you have in now in there because changing it will only make it more painful, trust me. id say just clean it twice a day with rubbing alcohol or peroxide so that it stays clean. and if it gets splashed with river water then you should clean it right after that so you dont get infection! good luck!(:

Is my bf a hypocrit or am I overreacting?

My bf and I are 24. Been together 8 years and he's the only guy I've been with. So the past months his band is preparing to tour and he is doing all the work out of 6 bandmates. So it has been pissing him off to the point he was going to fight one yesterday yet today he has a show which is currently going on n he texts me he doesn't want me to go when I asked what time there playing because he says he just wants to drink n chill with his band, yet his band is never there for him, he talks bad abut them n hates them yet his gf who has been there for him for yrs n all this time helping him prepare for the tour because his band is lazy n this is how he acts? Should I not be upset?

Job Interview Outfit?

Collared shirt and khaki slacks with nice shoes (not sneakers) is generally a good choice to go with for lower income jobs such as this one.

Isn't it time to take America back from the union robber barons?

No. There are no "union robber barons". Too, you are completely unaware of the projects that unions have funded.

When will conservatives realize it is the free market that is destroying America?

Capitalism...the Adam Smith many providers in competition was a pretty good plan in post war America. Unions were strong and were paid good wages with good benefits. American corporations made high profits and paid high taxes. Between taxes on wages and taxes on profits the US had massive amounts of public money to build up a truly first world social and physical infrastructure. Of course at the time Europe was destroyed by WW2 as was Japan. China and Russia manufactured nothing of value. The entire world wanted our high quality, union made, Made in America goods. By the 1980 American corporations found it easier to buy up smaller corporations to increase market share rather than increase production in the US. Ever lower taxes began to degrade our social and physical infrastructure. The ongoing 'Cold War' soaked up billions of dollars as did Vietnam. Japan and Europe began producing high quality goods. American corporations began to move overseas for cheap labor. Union busting was in. Corporations began buying each other up at a faster and faster pace. Trade deals that exported American industries went into high gear because corporations demanded that trade laws favor 'them', not American workers. China came on line and that was it for the American worker who has seen 'capitalism' that worked in his favor, become a form of corporate trans national capitalism that has robbed THIS country blind. 'Free' trade meant that we gave away an economy that favored the American working class for 'free'. Now the corporate capitalists want to reduce ALL pay and benefits all over the world and they have the current GOP/Teabag/Fox 'News'/ Jesus freak party on board to make that happen. A world wide 'middle class' has been created to absorb corporate production, though this process has reduced the 'American' middle class. China's several billion people, even with a 'small' middle class is always going to be much larger than the US middle class with our piddling 300 million people. China can absorbe more production than we can by far. Corporations don't need us. Basically we've been clear cut and stripped mined. There are many more moving parts to this, but the take away is the evolution of Capitalism has lead to the crucifixion of the American working class on a cross of 'Everyday Low Prices' and unless this is reversed, we're going to have to live at a much lower level of life style...and many of us already are.

Has anyone read Antonia toya carters PRICELESS INSPIRATIONS?

All I can say about that book is WOW, at first. Has anyone read it? I felt it was incredibly nerve wrecking, sad, and insightful. But, I am shook up from it a little heartbroken and again it made me nervous. I thought it was heartbreaking and I'm not sure how to recover from it... It brought back memories... And I just wish I could get a handle on it... Did anyone else react the same?! Was it sad to you how do I recover.....from such a heartbreaking story!!? Please...offer me any advice I know I can't be the only one this heartbroken!

Should I be with my boyfriend?

I've been with him for over 4 years. I love him. I think i am still in love with him, im not sure though. I feel like he doesnt value me. I feel like, when we first started dating, he chose me on a whim. I dont like feeling like somebody's second choice. I have feelings for another person. Strong. After only a short period of time. I am still young, only 21 years old. I feel like I would like time to decide if I want to be with him or the other guy or neither. However, having tried to broach the subject with my boyfriend before, he breaks down and it breaks my heart. I am almost willing to deal with the "what ifs" just to not hurt him again. However, I am scared I am making the wrong decision. My boyfriend and I have a great friendship on top of our relationship. However, me and this other guy have a lot in common. Similar interests in hockey, healthy eating, exercising, etc. My boyfriend does not share these interests. I dont find myself wanting to be physical with my boyfriend anymore. I am worried this is a tell tale sign that I should leave and at least try something else. I am heart broken and confused. Objective opinions would be greatly appreciated, insightful, and hopefully helpful. Thank you.

Biggest problem with today's generation: parental negligence?

I'm doing an essay on the biggest issue facing today's youth. I've picked parental negligence and am looking for insightful opinions on this topic. I can't find any hard statistics of any kind, mostly because I'm not talking about outright negligence. I'm not focusing on parents who don't feed their children or refuse to give them medical assistance. What I want to look at is the parents who are bad disciplinarians and who don't spend enough (or the right kind of) time with their children, enabling destructive behaviors. If anyone has any firm facts, interesting articles, or other helpful information on this subject I would be really grateful.

Are these the three best movies ....?

I adore "Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer". "It's a Wonderful Life" with Jimmy Stewart was a wonderful movie. "Spartacus" had plenty of action.

In your opinion do you think a lawyer is an ideal career for me?

My parents are very strict and I rebel a lot. But i have noticed i may be able to make a good lawyer of something because of all the practice i've had. I am able to catch little glitches of their questioning that most people wouldn't get and then use that against them. And I can think on my feet fairly well but it's not as good as if i was prepared. I am kind of smart i guess (bookwise). I don't get good grades except when this kid condescended me for sleeping and not paying attention and implied i was dumb. so i didn't take any homework home or study except in the 15 min homeroom and got high honor roll (94% gpa) I need to decide a career soon. How much schooling does it require?

What is currently in-place meaning of marriage in the United States of America?

It gives them that warm fuzzy "holier than thou" attitude. That and closing women's health care clinics.

When can i take the SAT test and how should i prepare for it?

i just finished junior year and i'm going into my senior year of high school. i need to send my college applications in between this September-December so i'll be sure that i'll be eligible for most colleges in my state. when does the SAT start up again? i wanna get it done as soon as possible, and how should i prepare for it? I've never been very good at school especially when it comes to math (algebra and geometry) and essay writing for English...what can i do over the summer to prepare myself? advise? tips? oh! and is the SAT test hard? thanks!!!

My sock has a hole in it. What should I do?

At approximately 6:38 last night, I was walking around in my house, pondering the many wonders of the universe whilst stroking my thick, luscious beard. I would generally be wearing shoes whilst doing this, but my shoes were outside, as it is rediculous to wear shoes in the house. After nine solid minutes on light pacing around my kitchen, my toe started to become cold which lead me to wonder the cause. I was horrified- when I looked down only to see this hole, which I estimate to be one inch in diameter, present in my sock. These were my favourite pair of socks, so as any normal person would do, I have came here for help. A few questions arose when I later analysed the situation. Are there any professionals I can consult on this issue? Should I keep the other perfectly fine sock and wear it with a different pair? No. that last one is rediculous, disreguard that. Obviously I can't just wear the sock with a hole in it, so I really see no options here.

Going make a manga about getting swallow alive by giantess but not digest or burn to death in stomach acid?

Hi guys i am one of the weird artist as karbo from the felary manga. I going create a non violence giantess. But gentle Giantess. As giantess when they get hungry they gonna eat something fresh or swallow in bite size. But i was pondering if i was the victim of the giantess and my height is around 3cm or 5cm and getting swallow by giantess is there idea what kind of suite or armor can withstand stomach acid and small intestine. Give some idea and point i be very appreciate it.

Do you think Will & Kate will stand the pressure and last?

I've always been fascinated by a-list couples and how they handle all the public attention. I watched the royal wedding, teary-eyed, and I wish them both nothing but the best. They seem to truly love each other. However, I know everyone talk about how mature they are, but nothing can prepare you for the life that awaits them. Do you think it will last? No rude answers please, I'm not trying to bash the royal family, I just want to stimulate an insightful discussion with different point of views.

Not sure wither I should stay here or go there? Nothing to lose in either place?

Certainly you have friends or family out there somewhere who can offer support. I'd go to where you have the most spiritual and moral support. You also need to consider the job market. You need to go where your specialty is in demand. The economy isn't going to make your job search easy no matter where you go.

Is this deletion day in the politics section?

Every time I answer a seemingly innocuous question with some pithy, amusing and insightful answer, the question ends up being deleted.

I have in my possession a DiKar Spain 45 Caliber Black Powder Pistol. I would like to learn more about it.?

If anyone is an expert on old guns, and could tell me a little bit more about this gun that would be much appreciated. I have a couple of questions: What is the barrel of this gun typically made of BRASS, STEEL, CHROME??? (I want to know how to clean it properly) What is the difference between a DiKar and a JuKar? When were these guns made and when were they used? Any other info. that anyone has would be insightful.

Going to a rape counselor for the first time, what should i say?

im really nervous im 16 years old female, i told my guidance counselor that i was raped 2 years ago but im pretty much over it now except i still get bothered by it some days and the man lives in my town so sometimes his presence triggers bad emotions. im pretty insightful about my own situation, i didnt think i needed to see a therapist because i usually can work out my problems but the other night i woke up with my hands around my throat and realized i tried to choke myself in my sleep. i told my guidance counselor and she recommended i see a rape therapist because it's bothering me subconsciously. my first meeting is tomorrow, what should i do/say? how do i go about this?

How should I prepare dried kratom leaves alternative medicine?

I have dried kratom leaves thatvare partially broke down like crumbled leaves,no stems. Earlier i took five grams and used my coffee grinder to gring it up,then I got a gatorade bottle and poured lemonade in it due to the high acidity and then funneled the kratom into the Gatorade bottle. Shook the contents for about ten minutes. This is not extract, it is leaves, is my method the best way or should I boil water and make a tea like extract? dissolving contents into water once grinded? Please tell best methods from experience.

Do you think comic artists are more anti feminist?

In the entertainment industry you sell sex, whether its comic books, tv, movies, or music. it's called showbiz for a reason. personally i find many aspects of this business to be vile and disgusting.

New Humidor Trouble, Need more Humidity?

so i just bought a new humidor and i watched a whole bunch of videos and think i prepared it correctly. I lightly wet the wood, soaked the green sponge humidifyer, even put a shot glass filled with water in there . Its been sitting for two maybe three days now and its still only 50 % humidity am i do anything wrong or does it take longer

Nervous about 11th to 12th grade?

My junior year starts on August 29th and I'm worried about it and senior year. I'm worried about the changes and the SAT's and all this other stuff. I have never gone to a school football/basketball game or any athletic event. I got a 3.57 GPA for the 4th Quarter of 10th grade. Right now I am on summer vacation pondering on school. What are some good tips and advice for junior/senior year???

Sites like beyourownit.com?

Has anyone tried the computer repair mastery course on beyourownit.com? is it legit, and if so will it prepare you for A+ certification?

Why do i feel like my heart is in love with a sociopathic guy? am i sociopathic as well? shall i take action?

you appear to be adventurous. The guy may be alright, but you have seen something attractive in his behaviour so it might be acceptable.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

How to get a cockatiel used to a new home?

I'm getting a cinnamon pied cockatiel from a breeder next week. He's been hand fed and has a great personality. I have a nice big cage ready for him and I can't wait to bring him home. My question is how can I get him used to a new home as easily and stress free as possible. I have three dogs already(don't worry, the birdy will be in my room and the dogs are NEVER allowed in there) and they get noisy sometimes, so would that be a factor? Also, what are some toys they really enjoy and treats that are healthy? I've had birds before(lovebird, sparrow, parakeets) but Im new to cockatiels, so I wanna be as prepared as possible.

In D.U M.A English entrance exam .., can questions on grammatical topic be asked..?

or i have to prepare on literary topics ..what are the main topics comes in objective type questions..!!

Who was the most intelligent, insightful, and interesting person you have ever met? And their sign?

He is a sagittarius. We get along well and I am so interested in his likes and his intelligents. It amazes me.

Please Help! Doctors, Psychologists, Therapists, and Insightful / Intelligent people: What should I do --->?

OK i am in the smart people maybe her hormone problems had lead her to physcological problems and it is hard

Thread take up lever on my brother lx-3125 sewing machine is stuck and won't move at all..please help!?

I was about to sew a garment last week and as i pressed on the foot control nothing happened it just made a droning sound and i tried to move it with the hand wheel but the same thing happened it just won't move and i don't know how to fix it.Please only insightful answers thank you.

Is my sense of humor immature for my age? (20 yrs old)?

no you're not immature it's obvious you have alot of haters (but hey don't we all?) haha,you don't need to worry about anything but your self, just be selfish and you would be so much better,besides you just like comedy :), I'm 19 going on 20 in 7 months haha

My boyfriend has a girl best friend?

To be brief about it, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and he has a girl best friend who currently is living in a different state. I usually wouldn't have an issue with this type of situation because I even have many friends who are guys. Yet, my boyfriend used to have a sexual relationship with her a while back or what most people look at as "friends with benefits." He had wanted more of a relationship with her at one point, but she wanted nothing more than sex. A few months ago he went to attend her recital in the state she lives in, and he stayed over her dorm with her and a few other friends for the weekend. I didn't go, but I also tried not to let my anxiety fly out the roof. Now, she's trying to set up a day when she can come visit him so they have dinner together and catch up. I told him that I wasn't necessarily praising the idea and he told me I had nothing to worry about. I asked if I could go to the dinner to introduce myself and just see who this girl even is and he said, "Not this time. That would be weird I think, but you'll get to meet her sooner or later...." Is this anything I should be concerned about? I ponder if she even knows he has a girlfriend.

Can you do me a favor?

listen carefully, my dear. When you see your father relay these words: Prepare for unforeseen consequences.

Does she really like me, Im so confused :( ?

This is lengthy but i'll try to keep it short as possible. Alright I met this girl 2 years ago, the first year I had an extreme crush on her, but come this year we started talking "A LOT" every day. thousands and thousands of text a week, and collected hundreds of hours over the phone with her. She knew how I felt for her very yearly on of this year. And she told me she really liked me, However she didn't wanna start dating right now. Well, being the gentle-man I am, I respected her decision and gave her some time. Well it's been 10 months of hearing the same thing over and over again. With ever changing reasons. To be quite honest I have fallen madly in love with this girl. to the point I hate looking at other girls, because I feel guilty or something. And I think about her night and day!! "NON-LUSTFULLY" I have shared and opened my heart to her many of times, and let her know I love her everyday. " I try to keep it less creepy as possible" Anyways she tells me she is in love with me. "Yes IN-Love with me" Yet in all this time of flirting and talking, she still doesn't want to date me? If she loved me like she says she does, she wouldn't care about these stupid, useless reason not to date, and would just give me a chance right? Recently I got an "unknown" friend to do some questioning for me. One of the questions was "Why do you like being single"? Her response to him was: Because I like it that way.Me and another buddy pondered over this for a few hours. We came to the conclusion she said this because she likes the attention of being single. We think this because, guys flirt with her left and right. (she tells me about it and follows with " Yea, I don't like him" and starts flirting with me again.. until she brings up some new band she likes with a sexy singer or new movie with yet another sexy actor. Friends tell me to date other people, and I did try this about 5 months ago. However I couldn't do it, because the whole time I was thinking about her. I later told her about the date, and ever since she acts like she hates the girl. same way with any girl that talks to me. So I don't even talk to other girls for her, yet she can talk to other guys and flirt with them. And believe me..there is a lot of them. I don't know if it helps but I'll share a little about myself. I have always been single, I have been asked out and chased after girls, but never accepted there hearts. I never found myself attractive to them or enjoyed being around them. For the longest time I thought I was aromantic, until I met this girl. Yes this means I have never kissed a girl, or ever had sexual encounters with anyone or feelings. In my life time I gone through many hardships that were the cause of women. All the male role models in my life have been drove insane and been put through pain because of women. Suicides did happen... My mother was a crack addict , and never gave interest in me and put me down a lot, threatening to kill me, and send me away meany times, and would tell me i'd grow up to be a wife beater and a useless bum. these things were told to me at the ages 6 through 15. So I not only did i not find women attractive, but didn't trust or like them at all. I thought about being gay once, but I don't find man attractive either. and my religion "Christianity" Frowns on it. <- though if I liked men, I wouldn't care, I'd go gay. But I don't. Anyways "off-topic" This girl has changed everything for me, I don't feel like a freak anymore, and finally I feel like I can open my heart to someone. But with this knew found feeling of "love" which I now know a thousand different definitions for, has come this pain. It's unbearable :'( I have never cryed for a girl until this one, never been so jealous, never been so willing to do anything to win someones heart until her. And I just don't know what to do or who to ask or where to turn. Can someone please help me, i am at the end of my rope here. If you would like more details to better answer my question PLEASE PLEASE email me! Thank you so much for reading this far, even if you don't answer my question, it feels better that someone this. (p.s: I have talked to her about how I love her and wanna be with her, and about my jealousy, and pain. Nothing seemed to change.)

What path should i take to become an Army Infantry Officer?

Hello all i was wondering if i could get some good insight on how to become an Infantry Officer in the Army. I am currently enlisted and in future soldier training, so i will go to basic prepared possibly as a E-2 i have a GED and plan on going to collage while active. Now i hear its hard to go from National Guard or Reserves back to Active, is it the same for Officers? Or should i stay in Active and slowly get my 4 or 6 year then go to ROTC or whatever. Anyone have experience in this? or some good insight?

Referring to Eugenics, why are whites, typically seen as more desirable than any other race?

This only occurs in western society. Go to asia, south america, etc and you'll find the ideal of desirability shift.

World Peace or a tuna fish sandwich?

think very carefully, i'll leave the question up for a few days so you can ponder this question for the ages

How much of a percentage of homophobes would you say are closet cases?

I think that people who AVOID homosexuals are secretly gay. Not necessarily the ones who talk about HATING gay people. I think the gay ones are the people who sit in the corner and walk away whenever someone mentions anything gay.

How can we enjoy this world when God is owner of this universe?

you should make youtube videos with such content/philosophy. Make videos for each verse and can point to how they are inter-related with other upanishads and gita. Publish them.

What is the name of the book?

the fiction book where the kid dates his teacher and his parents find out. [the " means unsure.] they give him away to a federal "medical center" where they take people apart and use there organs in hospitals. He escapes and saves a religious "sacrifice" and some girl and then they escape to a airplane grave yard led by a "general". the place then gets busted by the feds after an accident and the "general" gets hurt and the hero takes him to the hospital. the feds send him to the "med center" and he prepares to get sliced up but then something happens and the Unwanted organ donors all escape. vague huh? but then he gets his enemy's arm that tries to hit him. And i seem to remember some one eating nitroglycerin and being placed in a jail cell forever. plz help its like 1 o'clock in the morning and i cant fall asleep.

I have a question regarding Islam?

God is supposed to be all powerful, all knowing, ever existing, perfect, and righteous. I'm more merciful than God because I wouldn't starve anyone to death and I wouldn't put anyone in fire forever, I would save everyone if I were God. I would save everything and stop the nonsense crap in existence. Everyone would be one loving family with great pets and paradise for everyone. I would protect all people and things. I would fix everything that God messed up.

Is the wealth public?

One thing that confuses me is the strong protection that conservatives have for the wealthy. To me, it seems ridiculous. I'm an anarcho-syndicalist. I don't see that business leaders "generated" wealth. I see them as having a good, keen mind and whatnot. BUT they initially borrowed money from the Bank- that is, public money. To me, I see them as employees of the United States. I don't see anything wrong with taxing or regulating them. Also, they have Bankruputcy protection- meaning, they're not even really taking a chance. I mean, they borrow money from the public & then if they lose it it's not that big of a deal. I see them as managers rather than owners. They might have a little business sense but that should not give them the right to skim the top 20+% of the money that comes in. I'll give the best answer to the most insightful whether I agree or disagree.. (& shout whatever anonymous abuse you give. i know you're bound too. i can take it...)

HELP!!!!!!!!!! Needed tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

I am leading church tonight and need ideas on insightful scripture from the bible in the old testament please I just dislocated my arm and haven't had time to study easy 10 points to best answer!

How can I prepare my self to major in English? Also, if I major in English can I become a high school teacher?

I love writing and reading and I think books are my favorite thing in life. I honestly can't think of anything else that makes me happier, however in the last few years...being in high school and surrounding myself around people completely different from me...I quit reading as much I I use to... (atleast a book every single day) But now I'm in community college and have got myself away from those people and I have a completely focused perspective. I'm a good student and I make great grades. I'm currently working on my A.A. so I can transfer to a university and major in English. How can I better prepare myself? What should I be aware of? And what tips can I get? Also...if I get my bachelors in English can I be an English teacher in high school or college? Or would that require majoring in Education?

Should I go to the deathly hallows part 2 premiere?

Defiantly It's going to be the Movie of the year it will be worth the money don't pass down of the opportunity you will end up regretting it

How to weigh pros and cons creatively?

Any example will depend on which subject you are teaching. Maths, English. Chemistry, etc; will all have to have its own appropriate type of explanation.

I want to plant fescue in my yard full of weeds, how do I prepare and plant.?

My front yard has only weeds growing, and I want to prepare it to seed with Fescue. Do I need to poison the weeds, and then till. How long after I poison, and is the Fall the best time.

What will happen manual labor becomes almost unnecessary?

Interesting and well-thought out question. It's funny because everything has become easy for people, everyone got lazy. Sadly, everyone is lazy to answer this question. It's too much work for the mind. :P

How to cook fried rice??plz help?

i'm alone in my home and i dont like beans curry...my mom cooked beans but i hate it.i want to prepare fried rice..once i did it but its not good in taste...plz help...i want to cook again...thanks in advance :)

Chemistry problem, plz answer.....?

How much volume of water should be added to prepare 0.1 molar HCl solution from 100ml of 1 molar HCl solution?

Monday, July 11, 2011

When will I find more people like me?

It's a complicated subject, friendships and relationships. I know how difficult it can be to find a group of friends that suit you and your personality in high school. The only real advise I can give is to give it time and just be yourself ( I know it sounds corny). Most kids in school, especially high school are super sensitive and judgmental, always trying to impress others to fit in. So even though probably 30% of the kids in your school are gay or lesbians, they will try to hide it or deny it. So just go with it and be yourself, it's really the only thing you can do hey!!

Why do i feel like my heart is in love with a sociopathic guy? am i sociopathic as well? shall i take action?

Likely it's due to astrology. I would need to see your charts to see why. But generally, I suspect that some people are controlling due to Pluto-Venus aspects, while others are vulnerable or victim-like due to Neptune-Venus aspects. There's a lot of other possibilities too. Some people are attracted to a certain type of people just because of their natal aspects. Sociopathic people might attract each other out of sympathy or a sort of soulmate kind of relationship. Those are my thoughts.

Are interpreters/translators needed in japan? What do these fields essentially contain?

I am trying to discover my plans for the future and prepare for the preparation. I am curious enough to read the thoughts of people who might have valuable (maybe experienced?) insight on my questions. Seeing from the nature of my career choice, I am considering working in Japan. For an interpreter between English and Japanese, what is the outlook of this career path in Japan? Also, what are the common practices in this field? Do interpreters travel much? How many years of experience/progression in average does it take before financial stability is high enough to support a family? My questions might be vague, but I'm simply looking for what people might have noticed/experienced. Things might be different for everyone, I understand this. Approximates are all that I desire.

Thoughts on a piece I wrote for my English class?

very good, but after one read its seems more descriptive of her environment than of her character and when you have to start talking abt her character with "julia was an intuitive girl...." it seems very blunt and in complete contrast to the description of her environment which flows like water. you are very good at description of the surroundings, use that to bring out the character. the character development seems very blocky, merge it with the rest of the text. when u describe the grass or the bushes bring out her thoughts abt how she believes there are secrets hidden behind them, in them/it and how when the wind blew she wanted to follow it to see where it went to see perchance where it began,< this is just a crude example to describe her curious character, her determination, start it off smoothly, ease into the character. ( i hope this helps somehow, i would want to read further)

I want to get out of the guard?

Been in for a year and not interested in being in the military. Im just not satisfied with military life.I thought about it and i know i want out. Only looking for insightful info dont need to hear any bs about filling out my contract. Ive been thinking of being a pt failure. What discharge would that be?

Do you think it's worth to stay in touch with high school friends?

Actually it is normal, After i graduated i wanted to loose contact from my high school friends and just start fresh, High School was fun for me and I enjoyed my friends and like you i felt like i did not want to loose contact with them, But in reality High School is just a phase, You do crazy stuff, and their is too many distractions and once you get in to college, you just want to be dedicated to your work and get the best out of it. As well as finding new friends that have the same interests as you do (Career wise) It is totally normal, My choice was to delete my facebook and change my number, that way i had no contact with them later on I made another facebook account and that is when you see who is really interested in having you as a friend because they'll be searching you until they find you so don't worry its normal whatever you do just think about your future and what you will benefit from Good luck :)

Need help depressed, reputation might be ruined?

Its normal for guys/girls to watch porn. But just because your addicted to porn doesn't mean your a bad person. They must really be bad friends. You should probably find some new friends that won't gossip or say stuff behind your back. A real friend wouldn't spread rumors. They would talk to you about what's going on. And just explain. And if they don't except it, like I said, get actual friends

Do the thoughts and speculations that we have just before and after sleep often turn out to be true?

I've never really been able to 'prove' this idea, but I've often felt that the thoughts that I have just before and after I go to sleep seem quite clear and objective; it's as if I suddenly have access to all of the truths in my unconscious mind that I don't really want to know about and that I have been blocking from my mind. For example, I've tried to avoid thinking about all the possible mistakes that I've made in exams this year but today when I woke up I had thoughts of one of the mistakes I'd made and it wasn't even a mistake that I'd consciously avoided thinking about. I know that Freud believed something similar to this, but in your experience are the thoughts that we have just before and after sleep the truest and most insightful thoughts that we have?